By : Mary Lou, gynecologic cancer survivor
Cancer can be terrifying and lonely. You’re surrounded by family and friends who love you, but they don’t truly know what it’s like. There’s a special bond that only those who’ve walked this path can understand. I was lucky to be chosen to attend Camp Mak-A-Dream in Montana this September, where 48 of us gathered—each at different points in our cancer journeys. Some of us were survivors; others faced recurrence. But together, we were all the same, bound by a sisterhood that offered comfort and healing.
At camp, I could finally relax and be cared for, nurtured, and supported. We had activities for mind, body, and spirit, from challenging zip-lining and rock climbing to laughter-filled drum circles and campfire chats. We even enjoyed a Hollywood-themed dinner, where we broke into small groups to create a play in just 10 minutes—hilarious moments I’ll never forget!
Cancer leaves a mark long after the diagnosis. Every check-up brings anxiety: Is everything still okay? Will this new chemo work? And there’s an invisible line drawn in the sand: life before cancer, life after. Side effects linger, often unnoticed by friends and family—digestive issues, body image struggles, and changes in intimacy. I felt relieved to openly talk about these things with people who understood.
Many good things have come from my cancer. Teal Diva, the support group that carried me through my darkest days, has brought me an incredible tribe of teal sisters. I attended a Teal Diva Retreat that transformed my life, and I’ll keep going back because cancer is a lifelong journey.
Words can’t capture the strength and comfort these connections provide; they’re beyond expression. These retreats and groups aren’t just about sitting around and crying. They’re filled with laughter, honesty, sharing, and true compassion. It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s healing. The bond we share is unbreakable—a source of strength and comfort that only grows deeper with time.
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